I logged in on the internet the other day with a thought of
checking few statistics for my studies and project going on. As the default
page of Internet explorer opened with the recent news, my mind had instantaneously
set ablaze due to the news title it read, “Girl raped in Kolkata at Gunpoint”
As I clicked upon the video link, I was in tears, rage, empathy all at the same time. The first thing
in the morning I read to is this disgusting piece of shit that happened with
that girl, rather a woman and lo, the other male ego-testicals species are ever
ready to pounce on the conclusion that the Girls manage to lure their otherwise
peaceful minds to commit to this lustful act.
I have time and time failed to understand; leave apart the
rest of the world; that why Indian men (educated and uneducated) shamelessly
state that Girls’ dressing sense lure them for raping and eve teasing them. I
do not ignore the circumstances, where the girls DO lure these men but there’s
a whole lot of difference between a decent girl wearing revealing clothes and
an indecent girl wearing “Indecent” clothes. And men instead of grabbing this
difference grab some other stuff and enjoy like Riteish Deshmukh who fears not
getting into limelight once his wedding with GEN-NE-LIA spotlight is over.
I know what some Misogynists will think. Why is she blaming Men at all? It’s all the
fault of Women and Raping is synonymous to the concept of men. But not being an extremist, I like to consider
all the viewpoints and I feel, probably in rare cases it might be the fault of
the girl, but majorly it’s the perversion of men. In a country where the
assembly ministers for development and welfare for women and children are
caught watching porn DURING the assembly proceeding and yet having the audacity
to explain that they were watching “a woman get raped” so as to help put the
theories and details clearly while speaking about the topic in the assembly; do
you think wearing a short skirt, exposing some part of the legs/hands/abdomen
etc is only a strong reason for raping a woman? If so, why are there rape
incidences in the Islamic countries? Why are GIRLS or should I call them BABY
GIRLS, aged as small as two years are raped by their own uncles? Why the hell
there were cases of forceful sex in the earlier days when women used to wear
sarees, considered being the most elegant piece of clothing?! The reason now is
not the matter of clothes, but of the gender GIRLS!!! A body with breasts means a thing to be
fucked, and then thrown. If she is lucky enough, she survives or else cut into
pieces.
There’s nothing one can do to change one’s thinking, mentality and his character if one himself does not wish to change. If you have someone who has been victimized like this, give her courage, reinstate her confidence in life and register the incidence with the police even if they act lamely with the girl. As Rebecca West said, "People call me a feminist whenever I express sentiments that differentiate me from a doormat or a prostitute"; I would modify this to, “people call a woman a slut if she is frank with her opinions that differentiate her from the ones who silently suffer.”
Source: Rise-Now.com |
Sensitive topic, points well put. Thoughts expressed in an euphemistic way! Too good an article. And I love the pic at the end that says it all.
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Glad that you appreciate such topic vineet. And yes,the picture too:)
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